You don’t realize it, but in the next few minutes you’re going to learn…why men become distant and what you can learn from it. Now follow my path… i am of mature age and i will tell you the truth. You may not like this truth, but this is what i have found out in my own personal experience.
I will start with the woman. Women’s have been taught that a man should make them happy. He should be their all and create their happiness, or if he fails then you can always dump him for a new one. Who taught the woman this? Well, television, films and the magazines all have impressed on the woman how great everything will be if you find mister right. There really are no mister right. You have to define for yourself which partner is right for you.
When he is distant it is a way to cope
STOP… when your man (if you are in a relationship) is distant; he may wonder how the bleep he is going to live up to your expectation of him. You will expect him to make you happy in bed and also with giving his all in getting the things you both need to live the good life. Don’t take it personal it is all a matter of perception.
Before this time and age the expectations where low. They where happy when they could put food on the table. Marriage where a way to survive and reproduce. No one expected to be rich and happy. That is probably why you never see anyone smiling in old pictures. They had to work to survive and that was it. Now the expectations are high because of the glorified press and the media and not to forget the internet.
You are the decider and creator of your own feelings
The fact is that only you can make yourself happy. You should read that sentence again. No man on this earth no matter how handsome or good looking can make you happy. That is why men becomes distant and pull away. When he is distant he knows that you expect something of him that he is not ready to give you because of his own fear.
Your happiness is your inner light. You see, every human being can be seen as a radio station sending out constant transmissions. What you send out is decided by your own thinking and will pull in partners within that same frequency range. Like will attract like. You have work on what you send out and if you want a happy long life you need to work on your own happiness and not trust that a man can make you happy.
The media is making black and purple the main color
The media is constantly bombarding us with how bad things are. Pulling away from the bad news will set you off on a better path than soaking in it. Reading great books that are funny will also lead you to thinking more positively. When he is being distant do not relate to one single problem only, but a host of expectations put on a mans shoulders. You can create your own inner light by changing your attitude and polish that up to shine like a diamond and your life will change for the better.
Next… if you want to know how to get a man to commit you could get this book and read it: The “Girl gets ring e book” written by : Jonathan Greene and T. Dub. Jackson. They may not have fine diplomas but have sold thousands of relationship e-books . In it you will find all sorts of tips on how to relate to a partner and attract him to you…
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